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New Arrivals at HPL: New Books about New Moms–The Book of Life, On the Whole, and Shiver of Light!

13 Aug

Here are three new works, one memoir and two fantasy novels, which deal with the trials and triumphs of being new moms.

On the Whole: A Story of Mothering and Disability, by Ona Gritz

Ona Gritz until recently worked at the Hoboken Public Library as the Young Adult Librarian.  She is a talented poet, children’s book author, and memoirist.  Although we will all miss her here at the library, we can’t wait to see what new stories she will have for us now that she will be writing full time.  Gritz wrote an online column for Literary Mama and this work builds on some of the shorter pieces she had written for the online magazine.  On the Whole is part of a collection of short novella length fiction and nonfiction written by women.  If you’re a mom you may find it is hard to find enough time to read a long novel or memoir, but the length to me was perfect, long enough to feel substantial and worth my time, but not requiring more time commitment than I currently have. I know when I first had my son, I often felt overwhelmed at first; Gritz captures this feeling, but also adds her own unique perspective as a mother with a disability (cerebral palsy). I enjoyed how even in this short piece she captures effectively the relationships that define motherhood, not only between the mother and child, but also between her and her husband, and between her and her own mother. On the Whole is a great quick read for those looking for an engaging, well-written, inspiring look at motherhood.

The Book of Life, by  Deborah Harkness

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The Book of Life is the final novel in Deborah Harkness’s All Souls Trilogy following A Discovery of Witches and Shadow of Night.  The series revolves around the relationship between reluctant witch/historian, Diana, and geneticist/vampire, Matthew.  Fans of the previous two novels will also enjoy this one, but those new to the series will want to start with the first novel, A Discovery of Witches.  It is difficult to discuss The Book of Life without revealing some spoilers for the previous two books so for those new to the series you may want to jump ahead to my next review.  In order to blend in better with humans, “creatures”, including vampires, witches, and daemons are not supposed to interact so Matthew and Diana’s love is forbidden.  For those that like romance there is plenty especially in the latter two books, but other readers may be drawn to the unique description of genetics as it applies to the supernatural as they try to unravel the mystery of how Diana and Matthew are able to conceive children even though it is supposedly impossible.  The All Souls Trilogy also contain a nice influx of history as well; Harkness is an academic specializing in accounts of science and magic from 1500-1700.   Although The Book of Life and A Discovery of Witches are set in the present, the Shadow of Night is set during that time period.  The Book of Life begins a bit slowly and it takes a bit to remember who all of the many characters are (Harkness helpfully includes a character list for each of her books on her website). The Book of Life chronicles Diana’s pregnancy and the first few months of the babies’ lives.  The life in the title reflects not only this experience but a significant book, Ashmole 782, which she has been searching for throughout the All Souls series.  The Book of Life deals with issues of prejudice, nature vs. nurture, and the complex relationship between parents and children.  The Book of Life will resonate with many readers including those not commonly drawn to fantasy works.

A Shiver of Light, by Laurell K. Hamilton

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I had written about Laurell K. Hamilton’s Merry Gentry series previously in my blog post about adult series about fairies.  In her latest novel Merry had given birth to triplets.  Since A Shiver of Light is a fantasy novel, the triplets can each have multiple fathers and are already manifesting some magical powers.  But despite this conceit that may seem a bit farfetched, I found Hamilton’s dealing with Merry’s concerns and experience as a new mom to be very moving and relatable.  The emotions and protectiveness she feels for her new children will be familiar to many mothers and fathers.  There are still some sexy romantic elements in A Shiver of Light that fan’s of Hamilton’s work have come to expect, but they are not as prominent as in many of her other works.  To me this allowed the stories of her relationship with the men in her life to become more complex than sometimes they had felt previously.  It also showed another side of Merry’s Aunt, who had mainly been depicted as a sadistic, uncaring queen of the dark Sidhe, but now is shown to be more than simply a twisted Disney Villain like caricature.  A surprising loss occurs at the end of A Shiver of Light, which seems like it will lead in to the next book in the series and add to the political intrigue Merry faces.

-Written by Aimee Harris, Head of Reference

Running with Audiobooks from eLibraryNJ

17 Jul

For a long time I was resistant to audiobooks (I explain why in this post I wrote last year) but have found that audiobooks are the best way to keep me entertained when running.

Listening to music during runs doesn’t work because I never find the “right” song to listen to and spend more time fiddling with iTunes than paying attention to the road. (Some paths at the park where I run are littered with acorns left by rogue squirrels, and stepping on one is a good way to roll your ankle.) Running with my own thoughts doesn’t work either because usually I find reasons to end my run early/quit.

Lately I’ve been borrowing audiobooks from eLibraryNJ and listening to them through the Overdrive app (available on iOS and Android) on my iPhone. eBCCLS also works through the Overdrive app, and is very similar to eLibraryNJ. I use eLibraryNJ because there are more copies of certain titles available for cardholders that were purchased by the Hoboken Public Library. Both eLibraryNJ and eBCCLS can be accessed through the library’s website.

As I like nonfiction and memoirs, I selected titles from those genres. Following are titles I’ve read (or listened to?) so far.

I Feel Bad About My Neck, by Nora Ephron

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Nora Ephron was a classic comedy writer and I chose to listen to this book because of the title, borrowed from the opening essay about the lengths mature women go through to look youthful. While Ephron’s sense of humor is smart and subtle, I couldn’t much relate to this book as I am not its intended audience. But Nora was a wise, brilliant woman, which I can appreciate. My favorite essay humorously accounted Ephron’s efforts to hone her cooking style by following various celebrity chefs, such as Martha Stewart and Nigella Lawson, before developing her own technique.

Lies that Chelsea Handler Told Me, by Chelsea Handler

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I found Chelsea Handler’s book outrageous. Some of the complex and even sophisticated pranks Handler pulled are stunning. This book definitely made me laugh out loud. (My apologies to anyone at the running track who was startled by my inappropriate laughter.) Each of Handler’s victims, or her friends and family, has a chapter in which to tell their story of Chelsea’s lies. My favorite story was told from the perspective of Handler’s dog, Chunk, who just wants to spend time alone with his mom and not her crazy friends. I think this book will entertain those who aren’t familiar with Handler’s comedy. It’s that funny.

Life, by Keith Richards

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This audiobook was a serious investment of time as it is over 23 hours long. Keith Richards, the legendary Rolling Stones guitarist, has led a fascinating life. He talks candidly about drugs and his struggles with addiction. Richards discusses his stormy relationship with Anita Pallenberg, who had previously dated his bandmate Brian Jones. Rolling Stones diehards will appreciate the parts about Richards’s complex relationship with Mick Jagger. This is not a boring book. Johnny Depp narrates several parts of the audiobook, and Joe Hurley, who has the most entertaining British accent, narrates the rest. Richards himself can be heard toward the end of the book.

Detroit: An American Autopsy, by Charlie LeDuff

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Charlie LeDuff, a journalist raised in Detroit who returned to the city as an adult, outlines the factors contributing to Detroit’s downfall in this book, which is darker than the others I list here. Eric Martin narrated the audiobook and his voice reminds me of a noir film character. The most poignant tales are from Detroit’s firefighters, who battle fires in a city that is referred to as “the arson capital of the world” with subpar gear, with whom LeDuff built a relationship. Those familiar with LeDuff’s work will know that he covered New York City firefighters and first responders in the days after 9/11 for the New York Times, and it’s clear that he has great respect for them.

For my next audiobook download, I may try fiction or something that is more upbeat. Do you have any good audiobook recommendations?

-Written by Kerry Weinstein, Reference Librarian